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Pretty Is What Changes: Impossible Choices, The Breast Cancer Gene, and How I Defied My Destiny
Pretty Is What Changes: Impossible Choices, The Breast Cancer Gene, and How I Defied My Destiny

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Author: Jessica Queller
Publisher: Spiegel & Grau
Category: Book

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Avg. Customer Rating: 5.0 out of 5 stars 20 reviews
Sales Rank: 19690

Media: Hardcover
Edition: 1
Number Of Items: 1
Pages: 256
Shipping Weight (lbs): 0.8
Dimensions (in): 8.5 x 5.8 x 1.1

ISBN: 0385520409
Dewey Decimal Number: 362.196994490092
EAN: 9780385520409
ASIN: 0385520409

Publication Date: April 1, 2008
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A timely, affecting memoir from the front lines of medical science: When genetics can predict how we may die, how then do we decide how to live?

Eleven months after her mother succumbs to cancer, Jessica Queller has herself tested for the BRCA “breast cancer” gene mutation. The results come back positive, putting her at a terrifyingly elevated risk of developing breast cancer before the age of fifty and ovarian cancer in her lifetime. Thirty-four, unattached, and yearning for marriage and a family of her own, Queller faces an agonizing choice: a lifetime of vigilant screenings and a commitment to fight the disease when caught, or its radical alternative—a prophylactic double mastectomy that would effectively restore life to her, even as it would challenge her most closely held beliefs about body image, identity, and sexuality.

Superbly informed and armed with surprising wit and style, Queller takes us on an odyssey from the frontiers of science to the private interiors of a woman’s life. Pretty Is What Changes is an absorbing account of how she reaches her courageous decision and its physical, emotional, and philosophical consequences. It is also an incredibly moving story of what we inherit from our parents and how we fashion it into the stuff of our own lives, of mothers and daughters and sisters, and of the sisterhood that forms when women are united in battle against a common enemy.

Without flinching, Jessica Queller answers a question we may one day face for ourselves: If genes can map our fates and their dark knowledge is offered to us, will we willingly trade innocence for the information that could save our lives?




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5 out of 5 stars Redefining the Pretty Gene   April 1, 2008
 14 out of 15 found this review helpful

Focusing on three generations of women in her family, Jessica Queller lays the groundwork early on, letting us know she comes from a fiercely independent line of women, but one that still defines pretty by traditional means. From her actress-grandmother to her fashion designer-mother, and herself, a television writer (at the time, on the show "Gilmore Girls" and currently on "Gossip Girl), Queller grapples with the difficulties of finding her place in this female dynamic.

When her mother dies from ovarian cancer however, Jessica turns her contemporary eye on taking the BRCA test (the test for the breast cancer gene). After discovering she tests positive for the gene, Queller's inherent and inherited beauty is at risk as she weighs the options on how to proceed and insure her health and longevity for a beautiful life. The reader is taken into her mind as she meets survivors, pre-vivors and others touched by the disease and ultimately, makes a decision to redefine the genes and ideals we inherit.

While this book does tackle deep topics and questions, Queller strikes a balance by setting it against the starry backdrop of the television world and the history of her unique and lovably idiosyncratic family. Readers of any level and gender will appreciate her writing and hopefully, walk away with their own picture of the ever-changing face of beauty.



5 out of 5 stars Honest, gripping, beautifully told memoir   April 1, 2008
 14 out of 16 found this review helpful

I loved this book. Jessica Queller is a talented writer with a gripping story, one she tells with honesty and without sentiment. With a fascinating sweep through the author's family history, around the brave new world of DNA fortune-telling, and into her own personal relationships and how they are affected by the explosive power of the BRCA gene, her style is both intimate and intelligent.

This is not a dark and somber story. Queller is able to maintain a sense of humor about herself while getting to the scary nub of it all - the life-and-death decisions, the thorny issues of fate and afterlife - and ends the book on a note of inspired hope. I would recommend this book to anyone who enjoys a great read. It is not necessarily, even, a cancer book. It is a book about the triumph of will, passion, and self-determination.



5 out of 5 stars What Jessica Queller's "Eye Arranges Is Beautiful"   April 2, 2008
 12 out of 13 found this review helpful

I was hooked from the epigraph quoting Stephen Sondheim:
"Pretty isn't beautiful, mother. Pretty is what changes. What the eye arranges is beautiful."

This book, ostensibly about the breast cancer gene, is really, remarkably, about life, liberty in the confounding pursuit of medical truth, cancer, art, creativity, Hollywood, and the most compelling mother/daughter coming of age story I have ever read.

Upon reading "Pretty Is What Changes," I immediately signed up for gene testing, googled the author, bought a ticket for a revival of "Sunday in the Park with George," went to see Seurat at the Modern, and had serious talks and hugs with my daughters about the gene, my own artist mother, their limitless potential for success, and my love for them. Whew!




5 out of 5 stars A MUST READ   April 3, 2008
 10 out of 11 found this review helpful

I never write reviews, but with this book I can't resist -- I could not put "Pretty is What Changes" down!
Queller's heartfelt memoir is at once touching, informative, massively entertaining and witty. An extremely unusual quality for a book that delivers such a powerful and grave message. If cancer has touched any part of your life (via even a friend of a friend) this book is a must read. Live through Jessica's journey, you will be a better person for it.



5 out of 5 stars A treat to read - Brava!   April 4, 2008
 8 out of 10 found this review helpful

I haven't been so moved by - nor laughed so hard because of - a memoir since I read This Boy's Life: A Memoir (by Tobias Wolff - one of my favorite books). The turning of painful life experience into art - of occasionally far-from-pretty material into beautiful prose - makes this book a pleasure. Ms. Queller has intelligently faced the scariest parts of her life, and her account of the difficult choices along her journey not only made me marvel at her toughness while reading the book, but made me strongly urge the women in my family to get BRCA testing. A challenging topic in this rapidly changing world of ours has been handled with something that I feel is becoming harder to find all the time: grace. I recommend this book, and look forward to reading her next one.

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