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In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts: Close Encounters with Addiction
In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts: Close Encounters with Addiction

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Author: Gabor Md Mate
Publisher: Knopf Canada
Category: Book

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Avg. Customer Rating: 3.0 out of 5 stars 1 reviews
Sales Rank: 643286

Media: Hardcover
Number Of Items: 1
Pages: 480
Shipping Weight (lbs): 1.8
Dimensions (in): 9.4 x 6.3 x 1.4

ISBN: 0676977405
EAN: 9780676977400
ASIN: 0676977405

Publication Date: February 12, 2008
Availability: Usually ships in 1-2 business days
Condition: Hardcover; New.

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Editorial Reviews:

Amazon.com Review
He would probably dispute it, but Gabor Mate is something of a compassion machine. Diligently treating the drug addicts of Vancouver's notorious Downtown Eastside with sympathy in his heart and legislative reform in mind can't be easy. But Mate never judges. His book is a powerful call-to-arms, both for the decriminalization of drugs and for a more sympathetic and informed view of addiction. As Mate observes, "Those whom we dismiss as 'junkies' are not creatures from a different world, only men and women mired at the extreme end of a continuum on which, here or there, all of us might well locate ourselves." In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts begins by introducing us to many of Dr. Mate's most dire patients who steal, cheat, sell sex, and otherwise harm themselves for their next hit. Mate looks to the root causes of addiction, applying a clinical and psychological view to the physical manifestation and offering some enlightening answers for why people inflict such c! atastrophe on themselves.

Finally, he takes aim at the hugely ineffectual, largely U.S.-led War on Drugs (and its worldwide followers), challenging the wisdom of fighting drugs instead of aiding the addicts, and showing how controversial measures such as safe injection sites are measurably more successful at reducing drug-related crime and the spread of disease than anything most major governments have going. It's not easy reading, but we ignore his arguments at our peril. When it comes to combating the drug trade and the ravages of addiction, society can use all the help it can get. --Kim Hughes

Product Description
In this timely and profoundly original new book, bestselling writer and physician Gabor Mate looks at the epidemic of addictions in our society, tells us why we are so prone to them and what is needed to liberate ourselves from their hold on our emotions and behaviours.

For over seven years Gabor Mate has been the staff physician at the Portland Hotel, a residence and harm reduction facility in Vancouver’s Downtown Eastside. His patients are challenged by life-threatening drug addictions, mental illness, Hepatitis C or HIV and, in many cases, all four. But if Dr. Mate’s patients are at the far end of the spectrum, there are many others among us who are also struggling with addictions. Drugs, alcohol, tobacco, work, food, sex, gambling and excessive inappropriate spending: what is amiss with our lives that we seek such self-destructive ways to comfort ourselves? And why is it so difficult to stop these habits, even as they threaten our health, jeopardize our relationships and corrode our lives?

Beginning with a dramatically close view of his drug addicted patients, Dr. Mate looks at his own history of compulsive behaviour. He weaves the stories of real people who have struggled with addiction with the latest research on addiction and the brain. Providing a bold synthesis of clinical experience, insight and cutting edge scientific findings, Dr. Mate sheds light on this most puzzling of human frailties. He proposes a compassionate approach to helping drug addicts and, for the many behaviour addicts among us, to addressing the void addiction is meant to fill.

I believe there is one addiction process, whether it manifests in the lethal substance dependencies of my Downtown Eastside patients, the frantic self-soothing of overeaters or shopaholics, the obsessions of gamblers, sexaholics and compulsive internet users, or in the socially acceptable and even admired behaviours of the workaholic. Drug addicts are often dismissed and discounted as unworthy of empathy and respect. In telling their stories my intent is to help their voices to be heard and to shed light on the origins and nature of their ill-fated struggle to overcome suffering through substance use. Both in their flaws and their virtues they share much in common with the society that ostracizes them. If they have chosen a path to nowhere, they still have much to teach the rest of us. In the dark mirror of their lives we can trace outlines of our own.
from In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts



Customer Reviews:

3 out of 5 stars Ghost writer   June 18, 2008
 2 out of 7 found this review helpful

This book is flying off the shelves, almost unanimously praised for its compassion and insight. But let the buyer beware. Mate's prose is very seductive and smooth, drawing the reader in like a magnet (much like his profuse apologies for acting like a total boor with his staff: "Oh, poor Gabor, look how bad he feels! We'd better forgive him." Since there are no consequences for his disrespectful and insensitive behaviour, he dodges responsibility and can get away with repeating the abusive behaviour ad infinitum.)

Yes, the man tries, but by his own admission he is pretty screwed up. Racing out to buy CDs has little or nothing to do with sticking a needle in your arm (and it's a compulsion, not an addiction: there is a universe of difference). He's trying the old "see, I'm just like them" trick, another form of ingratiating himself and beguiling his audience, or at least pulling them in enough to feel sorry for him.

His insistence that he has "made progress" with his own addictive patterns is, to say the least, suspect. He writes $100 cheques to placate his office staff (a completely baffling move, as he is literally buying them off: giving them cash, presumably, so he can be as late as he likes), not to mention $1000 cheques to his wife to buffer his voracious appetite for "symphonic recordings". Then he swears it all off, saying he won't buy another CD until 2009.

My guess is that his buying compulsion is now completely out of control. This is because swearing off doesn't work, and Mate lacks any real insight into himself and his problems. Instead he "fixes" everybody else. It makes him feel good, distracts him from his abject self-loathing for a moment, and gives him a sense of power.

And let's not get into his summary of AA and the 12 Steps after attending one meeting. If Mate had attended one class on, say, heart function, would you trust him to treat your angina? Did he, in fact, get away with such slick behaviour in med school through smooth writing and abject apology?

No one seems to be objecting to all this, probably because he has pretty much seduced the reading public. Believe me, when you meet the man, you wonder where all that "compassion" is coming from. He is cold and abrupt, stinging you with nasty little barbs, then acting surprised when you react: must be repressed emotion from childhood, don't you know (for which you must read When the Body Says No). He will dig and dig and dig, pulling out long ribbons of past pain while hiding behind an impenetrable shield. But hey - the man's just trying to help you!

Mate will always get his bread buttered, as he is an opportunist who can use the written word to get what he wants. But readers should beware. This is a man so screwed up that he literally ground his teeth down to stubs. (Was he too proud to go to a dentist?). In short, he does not walk the talk. Myself, I will follow what he advises the minute HE starts doing the same. And it's not likely to happen. As the old saying goes, "Take my advice, I'm not using it."



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