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| Sleeping Through the Night, Revised Edition : How Infants, Toddlers, and Their Parents Can Get a Good Night's Sleep | 
enlarge | Author: Jodi A. Mindell Category: Book
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Avg. Customer Rating: 161 reviews Sales Rank: 671508
Format: Bargain Price Media: Paperback Edition: Revised Number Of Items: 1 Pages: 368 Shipping Weight (lbs): 0.7 Dimensions (in): 7.8 x 5.3 x 1
ASIN: B000GG4ZA4
Publication Date: March 1, 2005 Availability: Usually ships in 1-2 business days
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The Best Baby Gift Ever June 6, 2000 38 out of 39 found this review helpful
This book changed our lives. It is so amazing that I now give it to every one of my friends as a baby shower gift. Our 7 month old daughter was still breastfeeding every 2 hours day and night. I almost had a nervous breakdown I was so exhausted. Our pediatrician told us that there was no physical reason that she should be waking and eating that much. I found this book (I truly believe that God sent it to me) and finally knew that it was time to help our baby learn sleep habits. I could never bring myself to use all of the BabyWise book methods; they just seemed so harsh and cruel. However, this book lays it all out with the reasonings behind all of the suggestions, and lets you know that if you can't let your baby cry for 5 full minutes, it's OKAY to go check on her after only 2 minutes. The main thing is to just make sure you keep lengthening the time intervals. The very first night we tried the methods in this book, our daughter cried a total of 55 minutes (which was extremely heartbreaking). However, she SLEPT THE REST OF THE NIGHT and woke up HAPPY -- something she had never done! The next night I thought would be worse, but she only cried 30 minutes before putting herself to sleep. By the third night, it was less than 10 minutes. Her naps also increased and she became a much happier baby. She is now 2 and a half years old and still sleeps better than most of her friends. This book is a miracle and a must have for all parents!
A Babies Worst Nightmare! June 17, 2003 33 out of 48 found this review helpful
As a very tired parent, I was looking for insight and advise on how to help our whole family get a good nights sleep. I read feverishly until I got to the sentence that states that children "enjoy" vomitting! Are you kidding? I cringed at the thought of me following this woman's dvise and my sweet, trusting, and loving 4 month old son vomitting because he had cried so hard and this woman stating that he was enjoying himself! Shame on her. This "Ph.d" lost any bit a credit she ever thought about having in my eyes. This book is a baby's worst nightmare. If you love you child please do not buy this book!
Solid, practical advice for parents August 28, 1999 30 out of 32 found this review helpful
This is a great book that offers practical advice for parents who want to get their baby on a regular sleeping schedule. My baby had been sleeping in bed with my husband and me while I was on maternity leave. I loved it, but I never got a good night's sleep. When I returned to work 3 months later, I knew we had to get her to sleep in her own bed. Dr. Mindell is great because she approaches the crying aspect in very practical terms--your baby is crying because she is tired and she can't put herself to sleep. The first few nights were rough, but I kept telling myself that she had to learn to fall asleep on her own--she would never do that if we kept her in our bed. Within two weeks she was waking up once or twice a night. One month later she is sleeping through the night. I have a six year old niece who slept with her parents until she was a toddler, and to this day, she can't fall asleep on her own in her own bed. I did not want that for my child. Thanks to this book, that won't be an issue.
All Sleep Training Books Are the Same February 15, 2001 29 out of 34 found this review helpful
I wouldn't buy this book if you are looking for an alternative to CIO, because it offers none. My favorite line from the book: "By staying with your child when he is upset or afraid, you are only reinforcing those bad behaviors." If you are a parent who thinks that being upset or afraid is something other than *bad behavior*, don't waste your money on this book! Admittedly, I am pretty anti-Ferber, but I thought I'd give this book a try, since I'd heard many people refer to Mindell as "a kinder, gentler, Ferber." But her method is only Ferber's rehashed, with some touchy-feely advice designed to appease any guilt you might have about letting your child cry. I do think that there are cases when Ferber's method might need to be used, but those kids are the minority. This isn't a method for the average child. Even Ferber himself agrees that it's not for every child and even cosleeping might be best for some babies (see The New Yorker, November 8, 1999). Unfortunately this "Graduated crying" method is used WAY too often, and more unfortunately, parents are convinced that it is the best way and that it is their duty to do it. Parents need to find what's best for them, no matter what it is.
Disappointed with author's coverage of night waking - December 11, 2001 28 out of 34 found this review helpful
I waited to review this book because I really wanted to give it a try. It has been more than 3 months, and I followed Dr. Mindell's plan faithfully. While my extremely strong-willed 9 month old has gotten better about sleeping, she has not magically learned to soothe herself back to sleep at 3 or 4 am. After setting the plan in motion, she naps during the day like a champ, has a set bedtime, bedtime routine and goes to sleep like a charm (though I must admit that occasionally she cries for up to 15 mins. before falling asleep) Unfortunately, I cannot report that her learning to fall asleep on her own at naptime and bedtime has resulted in her sleeping through the night. My daughter sleeps through the night about 3x a week on average (meaning she goes to bed at 8 pm and wakes at 7am) The rest of the time she wakes between 2 and 4 am screaming - sometimes incolsolably. I've never been able to figure out why, and it is often very difficult to get her back to sleep. At our wits end, we have let her cry it out (which is very difficult). She has cried it out in the wee hours for more than an hour for 2 weeks straight - never seeming to relent in the length of time it takes her to stop crying. Obviously, she does fall asleep eventually (probably from exhaustion). We are exhausted too! Unfortunately, Dr. Mindell's book does not address what to do when your child has an iron will and is still waking in the middle of the night despite following the plan. (She seems too young for it to be night terrors). If you have a particularly strong-willed child, this book may not provide enough information to cure the sleep problem. All that being said, this book is well written, extremely informative, and logical. I found it very helpful in theory, but the plan did not transform my baby into a "sleep through the nighter." My baby must have fallen into the 20% that does not learn to fall back to sleep in the middle of the night despite using Dr. Mindell's method.
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